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anxiety, appearance, biology, embarrassment, emotional roller coaster, emotions, engagement, fear, game, insecurity, mating, ostracize, sexualization, sexy, slut, social proof, women, women's emotions
Women typically and perhaps, biologically, are wired with deep insecurity issues. They worry about their appearance. Makeup. Hair–including coloring it. Accessories like shoes, earrings, bracelets, necklaces, a purse, scarves. Clothing. Tattoos. Depilation of the upper lip, arms, and legs. Acne and other skin problems. Their skin’s color–is tanning needed? Do I look old? Is my moisturizer working?
Women wonder, “Am I sexy? Can I attract a sexy man?” Rollo Tomassi writes about this at The Wall.
Women worry about their partners. Is my partner happy? Is my partner sexy? Is my partner thinking about leaving? Does my partner have an STD?
Do other women like me? Do men or women think that I’m a slut? Will other women ostracize me? Are the dominant men giving me social proof?
All of these insecurity issues that women have are why I came up with my list of things that women need in order to mitigate their insecurity fears.
Women want to be liked and admired by both men and women, the attention of men, and to be desired by a sexy man.
All women want these things, from the ugliest femtroll to Helen of Troy.
If men are aware of these insecurity issues of women, it will help them in mating. Play on women’s insecurities.
For example, look at a woman’s butt and say, “Uh-oh. I see a big problem.” She’ll quickly look over her shoulder and say, “What?” She’s wondering if her clothing is stained, maybe with menstrual blood. Fear of embarrassment. Anxiety. Then you say, “You’ve got a taillight out.” Relief. Humor. Sexualization. Engagement. You’ve put her on an emotional roller coaster.
Maybe. Perhaps, if your intentions are good and you are gentle. However, women really need to dump 90% of those insecurities and stop being so self absorbed. “Relief. Humor. Sexualization. Engagement,” yes perhaps, as long as you are aware that her pleasure comes from the relief and humor you have just provided and not so much from the anxiety you have caused.
It’s about bringing some fun to other people. Women enjoy being on an emotional roller coaster as long as there’s a lot of time on top and some comfort as well.
Insecurity and women? No way! 😛
I’m reminded of this clip.
“Women Sort Yourself Out”
😀
Where do you find this stuff?
Mrs. Gamer was having an insecurity attack the other day. She thought that she smelled perfume on me and referred to the women I dance with as “sluts”.
I think that it’s common for women who are competing for a man to call all their competitors “sluts”.
Incompetent Mother Insecurity. Is this one of your fears?
We need a list.
http://therationalmale.com/2012/07/18/the-wall/
thx
@asd, not for nothing, but Insanity will spam your comments eventually
Not sure why she does that–maybe OCD? She’s quick to look at my posts.
Tomassi hasn’t got enough manly bits to have a proper conversation with me. He’s the only one hitting a wall.
Quiet woman, men are speaking.
🙂
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