Rather than speculate about what might be wrong with Dread, I’d rather examine what the Bible says about Dread. I’ve written some posts about the Song of Solomon. One of them discusses Dread.
Another discusses Preselection in the SoS.
Please consider that the woman is pictured chasing the man in the SoS.
Breaking rapport is very important for the man in the SoS.
A popular post is about married men overtly keeping track of sex.
Consider also my post about relationships.
My post about sexual macrodynamics is also important.