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dancing, divorce, dread, dread game, flirting, manipulative, options, soft dread, tingles
To be clear, not all Red Pill men hate Dread Game. However, most do hate Dread Game to some degree. By “Dread Game” I mean simply going out socially among women and engaging them as sexual beings by flirting or dancing with them, but it may or may not include having sex with them. Dread Game, simply, means having options with the opposite sex, whether or not you exercise those options. Dread Game does not mean overtly attempting to make your SO jealous.
Let me address some common concerns about Dread Game.
“It’s unfair.”
Attractive women automatically have options and automatically practice Dread Game simply by being. Because women are attracted to men for different reasons than men are attracted to women, men cannot do nothing and have options. In order to have options, men must actively seek them. Dread Game requires that men exert effort. Men must generate tingles in women in order to have options.
“Dread Game is fraudulent and manipulative.”
Yes, seeking to have options is obviously fraudulent. Attractive women always have options, so they must practice fraud somehow. If you seek to have options in order to manipulate your SO into finding you attractive, then you are seeking options for the wrong reason. You must seek to have options in order to keep your skills honed and as insurance against a breakup. Your attitude and habits will convey to your SO that you have options and Dread Game will naturally follow as a matter of course. Your primary mission is to have options. Dread Game is the result of having options and is secondary.
“Dread Game requires effort.”
Yep. Being lazy is so manly. Women can practice Dread Game without effort. It’s unfair that men have to actually do something.
“It feels like you’re cheating.”
The Blue Pill puts women’s interests first. The Blue Pill causes us to think that we ought to behave in such a way that women aren’t worried by our behavior. However, acquiescing to the Blue Pill means sublimating our own interests.
If a man feels like he’s cheating, then it’s because he thinks that he ought to do nothing because a woman does nothing. He feels like he ought to behave like a woman. Of course, a woman who does nothing still has options. If a man behaves like a woman, he will lack options and be unattractive to his woman. Sex will decline. He will have to fap and use porn a lot more. His wife will become bitchier. The man may face divorce, take a significant hit to his income and resources, face loss of contact with his children, face social castigation for somehow failing to keep his marriage together, and possibly face imprisonment for failing to pay the woman what he owes after the divorce.
- Red Pill = In a nutshell, the truth about women’s tendency to seek sex and relationships from the most attractive men and how men have been taught to pedestalize women even though pedestalizing women makes men unattractive.
The Autistic Gamer 
That’s a good way to explain it gamer, that it’s not trying to create jealousy or drama, as it is often (mis)understood.
To sum it all up in today’s pathological culture:
DON’T GET MARRIED!
Yep. Never again! Well, I didn’t get married under Marriage 2.0. It grew up around me.
Great stuff brother…
Dread Game is really a man engaging with other women as if he’s sexually available without pulling the trigger on any IOI’s he receives; but he’s not shy about noting (to all eyes) that such indicators are present.
And you’re correct…just being an attractive woman who gives men around her the tingles is dread inspiring to a man who has no frame or game himself.
So even being MGTOW, I’m clear to tell women I “befriend” that I know they have a dozen dicks to choose from. If they deny it, they are liars. What I also let them is that I, too, have bread in the oven, milk in the fridge, steak on the grill, and peaches in my yogurt…so…what?
This is what married men need to do. Make it obvious that an empty place doesn’t mean an empty cupboard.
You can’t do that if you spend every waking moment tied to your woman’s hip.
Being the only single man in my circle of married brothers, I can’t stand when we finally get a chance to have men’s fellowship to see these guys checking their phones and reminding us how many ‘minutes” they have left to hang out because of some sundry task they’ve been assigned by the wife. Not to mention the number of no shows to Breakfast and Bibles because “…man my wife needs me do. …again..”
Makes me sick.
Their wives used to love me…they look at me suspiciously now since I’ve swallowed TRP.
I don’t even forward them your Blog posts anymore…because their wives are looking over their shoulder and they just don’t want to hear their mouths any more. “Did Pedat send ANOTHER one of those…,”
It’s good to not hide options. It’s also good to not advertise them.
Have the mindset that, wherever you go, you are bringing the party to other people. That will help deflect criticism by your spouse.
Tell your married brothers: “You are the man. Be about your mission. Your wife should fit into your world, not you into hers.”