Women speak the language of nonverbal communication. They pay more attention to facial expressions, body language, vocal tones, and gestures than they do to actual words. A while back I invited a couple of women to my truck to drink a beer with me–separately. One accepted and the other declined. I gave both of them The Chat ™, where I explained that nothing was going to happen–no sex. They both chased me for months. This is because I instigated for isolation, which is a sexy move. Hence, the women ignored my overt words and preferred my covert nonverbal (implied) sexuality.
I don’t talk much to women–I don’t say much. Still, I communicate with them nonverbally. There’s a song sung by Alison Krause that expresses this idea very clearly. I went to AZlyrics to find the words.
It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don’t say a thing
The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all
Sexy men are terse. They also communicate sexually- and emotionally-rich content nonverbally.
Straight back. Erect posture. A swagger in the hips and shoulders. Thumbs in pockets with hands framing the crotch. A cocky grin. A confident smile. Bedroom eyes squinting with a slight smile. Laser eyes. Slow, halting speech. Incidentally touching the woman on the shoulder and arms. Resting a hand on the woman’s shoulder or arms. Walking holding hands. Parting lips. A tongue licking the lips. The man’s head moves within six inches of the woman’s head.