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I’ve been addressing this topic over at Krauser’s blog and thought that it might help to discuss it here.

ASD can happen anywhere, anytime.  A random stranger will almost always come down with ASD when a man instigates for sex.  A girlfriend can exhibit ASD after a fight, as can a wife.  If there is a prolonged separation of a few months, the man and woman can seem like strangers and will have to become reacquainted.  The man will need to demonstrate his value and he will need to provide comfort to the woman.  ASD will come into play.

ASD essentially is a woman’s fear that she will feel bad about having sex with a stranger.  Latin lovers excel at defeating ASD.  They create fantasies for a woman so that the woman loses her fear of having buyer’s remorse.  Women need some prospect of value after sex–maybe a long term relationship with an alpha male, or maybe fun times hanging out with an exciting man, or maybe beautiful memories of a dalliance with an exotic lover.

So, why do fantasies help relieve a woman’s fears?  Latin lovers spin fantasies in order to use the hamster (the woman’s own mind) to write a script that the woman will find acceptable or even desirable.  Latin lovers pay close attention to the clues that the woman gives about the script that she has written.  They help provide pieces of the fantasy that the woman has written.  It might not be an exact match–it might be even better!

So, be creative in weaving fantasies and creating beauty if you want to beat ASD. Who knows, you might enjoy your romantic pleasures more yourself if you find beauty there!