Last Friday Mrs. Gamer asked me where I was going dancing. I told her. She asked why (obviously fishing). I told her I wanted to dance with two women who were supposed to be there. She freaked out and told me not to come home. Lol I went out, of course.
Then Saturday on Valentine’s Day, Mrs. Gamer told me that she wanted an open marriage. I went out dancing solo again and stayed out until 12:30 a.m. and got home about 1:15 a.m. Danced a bunch with a trio of young women whom I had cold-approached. Fun time.
The next morning, I told Mrs. Gamer that I would take her to church and sit with her during church. I did so. The sermon wasn’t half bad. Then we sat together during Sunday School. I took her out to eat lunch. I took Mrs. Gamer to a Christian music concert that she wanted to attend (lousy rap/hip-hop music and I hated it). Later we ate some Russell Stover’s Valentine’s chocolates that Mrs. Gamer had bought for me and drank a Malbek. To cap it off, I cuddled with Mrs. Gamer watching Downton Abbey, which I don’t typically watch. Not half bad with a decent buzz on.
The only good thing about all this is that it was all my idea/my frame (except for the concert–yuk!). Mrs. Gamer hasn’t explicitly said so, but I expect that open marriage is again off the table.